Thursday, August 18, 2011

My life in Taiwan: 6 months in photos

My thoughts and images from an amazing half a year

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Few days ago was my half a year anniversary of my stay in Taiwan. It was almost exactly 6 months ago, when I stepped on this formosa island and decided to stay here for good. It was a brave move, but also something that has completely changed my life, more than anything before. And now I'm here, sitting in my small Taipei apartment and writing this post, wondering what to say. I'm wondering, how to express this incredible complexity of emotions and at the same time realizing that it just impossible. My last post, before I left my home and family, ended with the words: I just want to be happy. And 6 months later I am not sure anymore what happiness is.

Taiwan has changed me, has flipped my life upside down completely. The pace of life in Taipei is so fast compared to my sleepy little Slovenia, that I'm sometimes wondering, if I'm stuck in a dream or is it really reality what I see all around me? Let me be clear: I am not unhappy. I do not regret that I have moved here, married my amazing wife and completely started over. But I am tired. The job's making me so damn weary every day, not so much physically, but mentally. I used to be an active guy, full of vigor and bursting with ambitions, I used to travel and move, enjoy food and have a careless mind. But now I'm deep and serious and hardly find the time to relax and switch off from my job. I do have moments, that I enjoy and when I'm free, I travel as well, but sometimes I'm tired and moody during these short trips and affect my wife. We're both tired, the times are challenging, but we won't give up. I believe and hope that this is just a phase and that there's so much more waiting for me out there. I am learning a lot, learning about an industry I had previously no idea about, accumulating skills I have never thought I'd need them, I'm making decent money and have a decent position. I can say that with all the stress aside, I have achieved a lot in only few months and I am a little proud of myself. And in a very short time I have made friends, who I believe could be real friends for a lifetime, which is just amazing. Therefore even if times are tough and there are many moments, where I would just like to give up, I need to keep on going, keep on learning and keep on getting stronger.

And when I'm not working, I'm trying to survive the madness around me. And I mean that in a cute way. Taiwan is just something else. You will hardly find a place so contradictory and challenging, which is at the same time so simple and rewarding. Taiwan needs to be experienced, I can write 1000 words and post tons of photos, it won't come close to the real experience. However, I know that most of my readers do not have the chance to experience this wonderful island first hand, I have decided to put together a collection of my 50 most interesting photos I have taken during the past 6 moths, so that you guys can see at least a small part of the things I see every day.

I came from Slovenia to survive in Taiwan.

Below are 50 of my most memorable photos. There are much more personal photos, which will not appear on my blog, but the one below are equally important to me. This is Taiwan as seen through my green eyes!

On the first day we made a promise to stay together. It was Valentine's day.

And then she made me eat bones at Raohe Night Market.

»It's that big.« she might have said. Taiwanese TV is a fascinating phenomenon.

A cute girl vacuuming my head. That was a first.

A monk in Sanxia caught my attention.

I noticed that Taiwanese really love to queue. Me too.

In Taiwan fluffy stuff is cute. And cute is what girls like. Mostly.

I saw old men burn paper money on the street.

But don't fear, young ones are burning it, too. The tradition continues.

The don Quixote like traffic policemen in Taiwan are fascinating.

White socks and crossed legs and an empty subway.

Whenever I spent time in Ximending, I have realized I became very old (sadly!).

I had long walks in Wanhua and dreamed about the old times.

The »H« and the »華«, both are broken. Makes sense.

I am still trying to figure out this cultural particularity.

And then came March 11 and I was as shocked like most of Taiwanese.

We prayed for Japan's speedy recovery.

I had a fiery dinner at a teppanyaki restaurant for my birthday.

And soon after I started my job and my mornings are now like this.

Taiwan's father in Puli.

Kids near an AV shop at the Nanya night market in Banciao.

These ice cones in Tai'an village made me melancholic.

Fixing the doll at a shop in Zhongli.

I love those small fried thingies called chicken butts.

Taiwan is good for business. Illegal street vendors have it easy.

And then we almost didn't survive Fengjia night market in Taichung.

Taiwan's ultimate weapon against Darth Vader. Or maybe just a betel nut shop.

People at a beach in Cijin island. Literally sitting around.

Stinky tofu, this waiguoren's favorite. Well, sometimes.

Lovely pond at the Daan park.

Being cute at one of the biggest Confucius temples in Taiwan.

I visited 4 wedding dinners this year. The 5th will be my own.

Enjoyed nightly views of Taipei from Maokong.

Evening market with dogs and pigs running around people's legs.

My generic breakfast in Taiwan: Coffee and sandwich at 7/11.

View from our building.

Zhongxiao East road at rush hour. Where are all these people rushing to?

And then I bought the iPhone and became obsessed with it - new appleholic.

I wrote this in a Japanese house in Yilan. I even drew the coat of arms.

Beautiful sunset in Jiji, formerly known as Chichi.

Many times I was holding my head like this - Taiwan makes you think a lot.

These horns are delicious, a delicacy from Sanxia. I luv them.

Ah Zong's noodles make Taiwanese eat on the street. And they don't need tables.

Xinyi Road looks like the gateway to heaven.

Hanging clothes on the roof became one of my new hobbies.

Visiting Taiwanese old streets, that are only 100 years young, is always fun.

Taipei at night always makes me excited. But not too long, I'm usually tired.

In the end, I came here for love and a shoulder to lean on.

Taiwan made me stressed, made me confused and changed me...

...but I still love it here and can't wait to see more and share with you.

Wait for my end of year post with 50 more photos. The train made a stop, but the ride continues. Hope you had fun reading and looking at my photos. I will try my best to provide some good reading material to you in the upcoming months. Please stay true to my little blog and keep supporting me, so that I can survive this madness called Taiwan - the madness that I love.

20 KAFKAESQUE COMMENTS:

Traveling Hawk said...

You did it well, MKL! You are adjusting to your new lifestyle and to your new country. You already got a lot of experience there, and the way you tell the story it is quite possible that others will follow your example. Fighting, as Korean say as encouragement!

August 18, 2011 6:28 AM  

lulu said...

thanks for sharing those photos, its always interesting to check how is it in the another part of this world...
btw, that bones yuck!

August 18, 2011 12:31 PM  

LilyChen said...

Yesterday after reading this post, I felt released. Before you came here, I always have worries that you can't be used to the stressful environment here. However, you got a job and even needed to work harder than me, you must try so hard to make it. I feel sorry to bring you here, but still feel so proud of you, because you really achieve your goal, and start to stand by your own feet in another country.

I am really so proud of you, you're my best man, make me honored.

August 18, 2011 2:17 PM  

Phil said...

Hey MKL:

It's good to reflect on life and you seem good at processing all that's been happening to you. May you have many more years of life in Taiwan!

Oh, and about being tired all the time... Wait until you have kids, then you'll know it's like to be tired!!! ;)

August 18, 2011 2:43 PM  

David said...

Great post, I always find it fascinating to read how other expats find adapting to life in other countries and by the sounds of it you've done pretty well so far :)

I've personally found that the key to adapting is making local friends rather than hanging out with other expats all the time. I suppose marrying a local is the ultimate way to total immersion!

Be sure to do another update in 6 months time!

August 18, 2011 3:22 PM  

clive said...

I particularly like the xinyi road to heaven. It's so clean and so... heavenly :)

August 18, 2011 3:30 PM  

alcessa said...

You are very brave and you seem to be doing really well :-)

As to the tiredness and too much work: it happens very often that our bodies adapt and produce less stress chemicals after some time ... You know, you start doing many things automatically i.e. not wasting any active thought on them and also "not really seeing things" because you've grown used to them or care less than in the beginning and your body and mind can then relax a bit more, if nothing new and even more stressy comes around. It is quite possible that this is an integral part of being an expat, having a new job and a new professional field and learning plays a huge part ...

I don't know: I'd say go with it and don't forget the intense experiences when your body, your mind and your life in general will start to feel more relaxed and relaxing :-)

It is also in this way that blogging about it all is a good idea, no? Capturing the excitement, the intensity ...

August 18, 2011 10:33 PM  

chris federick said...

wow what an eventful 6 months haha. Glad ure enjoying urself mate!

August 18, 2011 11:26 PM  

Hannah said...

sounds amazing. my friend is currently teaching out in cambodia at the min and she's having a fantastic time. i can't wait to go travelling now!


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August 19, 2011 7:34 AM  

Becks said...

I love your introspective posts...especially when they're accompanied by lots and lots of pictures.

I can only imagine what moving from a quieter, more rural place to one of the busiest, crowded cities in the world like Taiwan would be like.

Life is full of different experiences and periods of life. I'm sure you'll hit your equilibrium groove at some point and be able to coast along...although I'm sure it will still be a fast-paced groove if you remain in Taiwan.

As long as you've got Lilly, love and are financially stable you can weather whatever comes your way though, I'm sure. Here's to six months (plus many, many more)!

August 19, 2011 1:09 PM  

Netster said...

Extraordinary my friend!

I am so proud and man you're a god!

how did you manage to do so much in 6 month times impressed me!!!!

All the best and I think I have to pack my bag and move to Taiwan too - looking for love and job :D

a real life true story everyone can learn and relate to.

cheers bro.

August 20, 2011 6:24 PM  

Netster said...

btw, the train photo looks like the one you whatsapp me :)

and yes we both have got an iPhone now. :D I hope I did poison you in buying one hahahahaha

August 20, 2011 6:27 PM  

dolce la robyn said...

me want that lacy tights like the girl in the photo of youths burning papers on the street was wearing. pretty please, tai lou? =D

August 21, 2011 6:35 AM  

Anonymous said...

I like your blogs. You write them well and capture the feeling well. Besides all the things different about TAiwan versus Slovenia, you are also growing up and "working" and being married and all that. Hang in there !

tommy

August 21, 2011 2:21 PM  

Anonymous said...

I really enjoy reading your blog. I studied in Taiwan myself for about a year (at 台大, a few years ago) and had a fantastic time there. Your blog manages to capture the "flavour" of Taiwan very well.

In many ways I envy you. Yes, you make long hours, as do many of us young people in the West (After living in Taipei, I returned to Europe, graduated, married a Shanghainese lady and started working long hours in a London-based investment bank.) But you are going through this situation in a pretty amazing and stimulating environment. Although I perfectly understand the feeling of having limited time to enjoy what is going on around you, you should definitely try your best. I wouldn't mind to trade places!

August 21, 2011 11:50 PM  

James said...

Taiwanese may like queueing for some new shop, service, deal or famous person but they're not very good at it on the MRT or in shops! I probably have cause to say: '不要插隊' 10 times a day!

I can see from your pic what you mean though - they definitely like standing around on escalators rather than taking the 'fast lane'.

Not for me I'm afraif MKL - I don't want to be hanging around getting from A to B any longer than necessary, esepcially when their are hordes of directionally-challenged people trundling about!

August 23, 2011 12:26 AM  

James said...

ooops: *afraid* and *there*

August 23, 2011 12:28 AM  

MKL said...

Thanks everybody for the encouraging words. Happy to see you comment, Alcessa :) And Chris, Clive, Lulu - it's been a while :) And thanks to everybody else of course.

September 7, 2011 1:22 AM  

La Chinita said...

Wow, I envy you a bit for being in Taiwan. Though I'm genetically 100% Taiwanese and even if I counted all the time that I've spent in Taiwan, you would still have more :) Please, enjoy every moment and thank you for sharing your wonderful pictures! I'm getting "homesick" as most Germans would probably say seeing me but since I haven't actually lived in Taiwan, it's more the opposite "Fernweh"...

November 16, 2011 5:57 AM  

MKL said...

@La Chinita: Thanks for your comment :) In this moment I also have Fernweh, because I'm currently in Germany for few days.

Ich hoffe, dass du bald Gelegenheit haben wirst Taiwan noch mal zu besuchen. Die Dinge verändern sich sehr schnell, insbesondere in Taipeh.

November 18, 2011 3:16 AM  


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