My life in Taiwan: 6 months in photos
My thoughts and images from an amazing half a year

Few days ago was my half a year anniversary of my stay in Taiwan. It was almost exactly 6 months ago, when I stepped on this formosa island and decided to stay here for good. It was a brave move, but also something that has completely changed my life, more than anything before. And now I'm here, sitting in my small Taipei apartment and writing this post, wondering what to say. I'm wondering, how to express this incredible complexity of emotions and at the same time realizing that it just impossible. My last post, before I left my home and family, ended with the words: I just want to be happy. And 6 months later I am not sure anymore what happiness is.
Taiwan has changed me, has flipped my life upside down completely. The pace of life in Taipei is so fast compared to my sleepy little Slovenia, that I'm sometimes wondering, if I'm stuck in a dream or is it really reality what I see all around me? Let me be clear: I am not unhappy. I do not regret that I have moved here, married my amazing wife and completely started over. But I am tired. The job's making me so damn weary every day, not so much physically, but mentally. I used to be an active guy, full of vigor and bursting with ambitions, I used to travel and move, enjoy food and have a careless mind. But now I'm deep and serious and hardly find the time to relax and switch off from my job. I do have moments, that I enjoy and when I'm free, I travel as well, but sometimes I'm tired and moody during these short trips and affect my wife. We're both tired, the times are challenging, but we won't give up. I believe and hope that this is just a phase and that there's so much more waiting for me out there. I am learning a lot, learning about an industry I had previously no idea about, accumulating skills I have never thought I'd need them, I'm making decent money and have a decent position. I can say that with all the stress aside, I have achieved a lot in only few months and I am a little proud of myself. And in a very short time I have made friends, who I believe could be real friends for a lifetime, which is just amazing. Therefore even if times are tough and there are many moments, where I would just like to give up, I need to keep on going, keep on learning and keep on getting stronger.
And when I'm not working, I'm trying to survive the madness around me. And I mean that in a cute way. Taiwan is just something else. You will hardly find a place so contradictory and challenging, which is at the same time so simple and rewarding. Taiwan needs to be experienced, I can write 1000 words and post tons of photos, it won't come close to the real experience. However, I know that most of my readers do not have the chance to experience this wonderful island first hand, I have decided to put together a collection of my 50 most interesting photos I have taken during the past 6 moths, so that you guys can see at least a small part of the things I see every day.

I came from Slovenia to survive in Taiwan.
Below are 50 of my most memorable photos. There are much more personal photos, which will not appear on my blog, but the one below are equally important to me. This is Taiwan as seen through my green eyes!


















































Wait for my end of year post with 50 more photos. The train made a stop, but the ride continues. Hope you had fun reading and looking at my photos. I will try my best to provide some good reading material to you in the upcoming months. Please stay true to my little blog and keep supporting me, so that I can survive this madness called Taiwan - the madness that I love.
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20 KAFKAESQUE COMMENTS:
You did it well, MKL! You are adjusting to your new lifestyle and to your new country. You already got a lot of experience there, and the way you tell the story it is quite possible that others will follow your example. Fighting, as Korean say as encouragement!
August 18, 2011 6:28 AM
thanks for sharing those photos, its always interesting to check how is it in the another part of this world...
btw, that bones yuck!
August 18, 2011 12:31 PM
Yesterday after reading this post, I felt released. Before you came here, I always have worries that you can't be used to the stressful environment here. However, you got a job and even needed to work harder than me, you must try so hard to make it. I feel sorry to bring you here, but still feel so proud of you, because you really achieve your goal, and start to stand by your own feet in another country.
I am really so proud of you, you're my best man, make me honored.
August 18, 2011 2:17 PM
Hey MKL:
It's good to reflect on life and you seem good at processing all that's been happening to you. May you have many more years of life in Taiwan!
Oh, and about being tired all the time... Wait until you have kids, then you'll know it's like to be tired!!! ;)
August 18, 2011 2:43 PM
Great post, I always find it fascinating to read how other expats find adapting to life in other countries and by the sounds of it you've done pretty well so far :)
I've personally found that the key to adapting is making local friends rather than hanging out with other expats all the time. I suppose marrying a local is the ultimate way to total immersion!
Be sure to do another update in 6 months time!
August 18, 2011 3:22 PM
I particularly like the xinyi road to heaven. It's so clean and so... heavenly :)
August 18, 2011 3:30 PM
You are very brave and you seem to be doing really well :-)
As to the tiredness and too much work: it happens very often that our bodies adapt and produce less stress chemicals after some time ... You know, you start doing many things automatically i.e. not wasting any active thought on them and also "not really seeing things" because you've grown used to them or care less than in the beginning and your body and mind can then relax a bit more, if nothing new and even more stressy comes around. It is quite possible that this is an integral part of being an expat, having a new job and a new professional field and learning plays a huge part ...
I don't know: I'd say go with it and don't forget the intense experiences when your body, your mind and your life in general will start to feel more relaxed and relaxing :-)
It is also in this way that blogging about it all is a good idea, no? Capturing the excitement, the intensity ...
August 18, 2011 10:33 PM
wow what an eventful 6 months haha. Glad ure enjoying urself mate!
August 18, 2011 11:26 PM
sounds amazing. my friend is currently teaching out in cambodia at the min and she's having a fantastic time. i can't wait to go travelling now!
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August 19, 2011 7:34 AM
I love your introspective posts...especially when they're accompanied by lots and lots of pictures.
I can only imagine what moving from a quieter, more rural place to one of the busiest, crowded cities in the world like Taiwan would be like.
Life is full of different experiences and periods of life. I'm sure you'll hit your equilibrium groove at some point and be able to coast along...although I'm sure it will still be a fast-paced groove if you remain in Taiwan.
As long as you've got Lilly, love and are financially stable you can weather whatever comes your way though, I'm sure. Here's to six months (plus many, many more)!
August 19, 2011 1:09 PM
Extraordinary my friend!
I am so proud and man you're a god!
how did you manage to do so much in 6 month times impressed me!!!!
All the best and I think I have to pack my bag and move to Taiwan too - looking for love and job :D
a real life true story everyone can learn and relate to.
cheers bro.
August 20, 2011 6:24 PM
btw, the train photo looks like the one you whatsapp me :)
and yes we both have got an iPhone now. :D I hope I did poison you in buying one hahahahaha
August 20, 2011 6:27 PM
me want that lacy tights like the girl in the photo of youths burning papers on the street was wearing. pretty please, tai lou? =D
August 21, 2011 6:35 AM
I like your blogs. You write them well and capture the feeling well. Besides all the things different about TAiwan versus Slovenia, you are also growing up and "working" and being married and all that. Hang in there !
tommy
August 21, 2011 2:21 PM
I really enjoy reading your blog. I studied in Taiwan myself for about a year (at 台大, a few years ago) and had a fantastic time there. Your blog manages to capture the "flavour" of Taiwan very well.
In many ways I envy you. Yes, you make long hours, as do many of us young people in the West (After living in Taipei, I returned to Europe, graduated, married a Shanghainese lady and started working long hours in a London-based investment bank.) But you are going through this situation in a pretty amazing and stimulating environment. Although I perfectly understand the feeling of having limited time to enjoy what is going on around you, you should definitely try your best. I wouldn't mind to trade places!
August 21, 2011 11:50 PM
Taiwanese may like queueing for some new shop, service, deal or famous person but they're not very good at it on the MRT or in shops! I probably have cause to say: '不要插隊' 10 times a day!
I can see from your pic what you mean though - they definitely like standing around on escalators rather than taking the 'fast lane'.
Not for me I'm afraif MKL - I don't want to be hanging around getting from A to B any longer than necessary, esepcially when their are hordes of directionally-challenged people trundling about!
August 23, 2011 12:26 AM
ooops: *afraid* and *there*
August 23, 2011 12:28 AM
Thanks everybody for the encouraging words. Happy to see you comment, Alcessa :) And Chris, Clive, Lulu - it's been a while :) And thanks to everybody else of course.
September 7, 2011 1:22 AM
Wow, I envy you a bit for being in Taiwan. Though I'm genetically 100% Taiwanese and even if I counted all the time that I've spent in Taiwan, you would still have more :) Please, enjoy every moment and thank you for sharing your wonderful pictures! I'm getting "homesick" as most Germans would probably say seeing me but since I haven't actually lived in Taiwan, it's more the opposite "Fernweh"...
November 16, 2011 5:57 AM
@La Chinita: Thanks for your comment :) In this moment I also have Fernweh, because I'm currently in Germany for few days.
Ich hoffe, dass du bald Gelegenheit haben wirst Taiwan noch mal zu besuchen. Die Dinge verändern sich sehr schnell, insbesondere in Taipeh.
November 18, 2011 3:16 AM
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