Thursday, July 29, 2010

Why most men love and most women hate Megan Fox?

I think a part of the answer lies in the question above: Because most men love Megan fox, most women hate her. I think the main reason for the hate is simple: Envy. Women, who are extremely sexy, will always attract the scorn and contempt of other women. Isn't it funny, that we men on the other hand do admire a handsome man's popularity with the ladies, because we rather think what we could do to become like him instead of finding flaws to make him appear as nothing special. In my case, I never envied Brad Pitt at the height of his popularity in the 1990s. I was happy for him, even admired him. He was the male Megan Fox back then, just that he was always the good guy. Megan on the other hand is considered the bad girl by the media. She has tattoos, she has most likely done some surgery, she's blunt and outspoken, never shy to say what she thinks. She's not hesitant to show of her sexy body and be the vixen the media wants her to be. And the men love her and think she's uberhot. And the women hate her and think she's fake. Ok, I'm exaggerating, not everyone thinks that way. But there are many people who react to her the way I described here. I was reading some comments under the video embedded above (which is pretty funny, btw) and here are some typical reactions to her:

Women:

Angeline Jolie is better. Jessica Alba is better. They're so classy and beautiful naturally. Megan Fox looks like a pornstar. [by roseheroine]

I hate to admit, I am jealous of how pretty she is, but then again, she's fake, natural beauty doesnt come with makeup, hair dye, spray on tans, plastic surgery and eye contacts. [by Xrandomnesssable]

Men:

The people moaning about how natural beauty isn't appreciated, aren't naturally beautiful.
Megan Fox is 86x hotter than any of you will ever be, even in your dreams.
[by
a155099]

To all the comments saying "she's not hot without any makeup" and shit, f*ck off. I'd f*ck her brains out and so would any straight guy on this planet. [by AnE000002]

To conclude my little observation, let me tell you that I myself am a Megan Fox fan. Hey, I'm a typical guy ;-) I think she's one of the hottest women in the world at this point, only my girlfriend is hotter than her for me (that's obvious). And with all the love for Asian celebrities and models, at this time I can hardly find any girl from the Far East matching up with Megan Fox.

With that said, I urge my female followers to not mind my personal feelings and tell me honestly: Do you like Megan Fox? If you do or if you don't, just explain why, so we can find out why does she divide the genders so much.

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Monday, July 26, 2010

Taiwan scooterland

One thing that will bother you in Taiwan

Taiwan is scooterland.

So many people ask me: "Man, you're only praising Taiwan! What's wrong with you? So many things are bad there yada yada yada..." I reply: "Huh, what is bad? You have great food, friendly people, hot women, beautiful nature..." And then I'm asked: "How about scooters?" And I'm like: "Oh, that... oh yea, that is annoying. You have a point."

If you stay only a few days in Taiwan, you'll notice that over half of the population rides motorcycles and bicycles or whatever has two (sometimes three) wheels attached to it. The most common among them are scooters. Even though you'll sometimes see a hot girl in high heels rushing by and making you think whoooooaaaaa, that won't make up for the annoyances you'll experience when walking around Taipei's streets, but even more so in cities around Taipei, such as Banqiao and Xinzhuang. While for Malaysian Chinese cars are the most basic means of transportation, scooters are the most basic form of transportation for Taiwanese. And I think when it comes to the number of scooters, Taiwan even tops Italy. No wonder, that Taiwan is along with China and Italy has the most scooter manufacturers in the world (source, 2010).

Young Taiwanese love to ride scooters.

1 It can be annoying

The most annoying thing is, when someone walks slowly behind you on the sidewalk, literally pushing you to either step aside or walk faster. And that can happen many times in just one day. Sometimes it's annoying to go to certain night markets, because scooters are everywhere. And if you're new in Taiwan, you'll need few minutes to cross certain roads, because those who ride scooters won't stop for you, they never stop, they just slow down and you need to imagine that you're playing Super Mario and dodge them as if they were enemies from the game.

Taipei is scooterland, too. You won't see something like this in Slovenia.

But for Taiwanese scooters are much more than just a way of transportation. Scooters are part of life. For Taiwanese, they're convenient, because they're small and cheap. They're like cellphones, everyone's gotta have one, right?

On highways scooters have their own lanes (Photo: Huajiang bridge).

2 Parking scooters

Another thing, that's connected with scooters is parking space. Since there are so many out there, every little corner is sometimes used to park scooters. Maybe some people see a certain charm in that, but for me it's just a lot of metal and rubber squeezed together:

I'm sure this road could be listed in the Guiness Book of Records.

Every small backstreet can be used for parking scooters.

But scooters can also serve as something different than just transportation. They can be much more than that. It may be funny to Westerners to see what Taiwanese do with and on scooters (and believe me, I've seen a lot), but for the Taiwanese people this is normal:

3 Scooters as family vehicles

Seen in Xinpu.

It's not uncommon to see a whole family on a scooter going to night markets, ordering food, eating it on the bike and then rushing off home. The highest number of people I saw on one scooter was 5 (father driving, mother behind and 3 kids somewhere in between). Simply amazing!

4 Scooters for sleeping

This was seen in Kaohsiung.

I saw this guy in the morning around 7am. He must have been so tired, he took a nap on his bike. I only saw that once in Taiwan, but I'm sure it's more common than you think. Taiwanese are workaholics. You'll see guys like him in Europe too, but because they're alcoholics, lol.

5 Pets on scooters

Took this photo in Taoyuan City.

As you can see, not only is this scooter used for keeping the dog on a leash, it's also used as a store room and a hanger. Taiwanese are very practical. And seeing dogs on scooters is common in Taiwan, too. Who knows, maybe they're driving sometimes as well. Woof! :-P

6 Taiwan Scooterland conclusions

I wonder what else are young Taiwanese doing on scooters, if you know what I mean? But I don't really wanna know (actually I do, I'm just sayin'). In case I get some new funny stuff about scooters, I'll update this post, so stay tuned.

Be sure to walk on the side of the road in night markets for your own safety.

So now you know the whole truth about Taiwan. I couldn't conceal it anymore, yes, I'm saying it out loud once again: Taiwan is scooterland! Probably a bigger one than India or Italy! So be prepared when you visit Taiwan, scooters may give you some minor annoyances. Sure, Taiwanese will say: "Hey, scooters are convenient, why all the fuss about it?" But they're Taiwanese, they can't see what you see, so don't argue with them, it's normal for them, they're born with scooters. Just smile and change the topic to food and you'll avoid a punch in the nose (kidding!). Anyway... come to Taiwan, you'll have fun! Bubble tea and stinky tofu are waiting for you. ^_^

Do you have any scooter story to share?

[LIFE in Taiwan][My TAIWAN page][All photos by MKL, 2010]
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Historic Gates of Taipei

Part of my Taipei resource

Taipei, the bustling city of today, used to have a wall with 5 gates something over a century ago. What remains today are 4 gates, of which only 1 survived in its original form. All gates were constructed between 1879 and 1884 during the rule of the Qing Dynasty. One gate (namely the West Gate) and the wall were destroyed and removed by the Japanese during their occupation of Taiwan (1895-1945) and was never reconstructed. The CKS government of the Republic of China (Taiwan) modified 3 of the 4 remaining gates in 1966 by changing the upper part of the original gates into a northern Chinese style architecture (supposedly "to make Taipei more attractive to tourists", that worked out well, didn't it?) and that's why there's only one gate in its original form today (namely the North Gate).

1 List of the historic gates of Taipei

Please click on the photos to read an article about a particular gate.

Beimen.

Nanmen.

Xiaonanmen.

Dongmen.

Ximen.

2 Location map of the historic gates of Taipei

Qing dynasty gates in Taipei
Here you can see where the gates stand today. The West Gate doesn't exist anymore.

3 Timeline of rulers over Taiwan (links to Wikipedia)

Before WWII: [Qing Dynasty 1683-1895][Japanese occupation 1895-1945]
After WWII: [Kuomintang 1945-2000][DPP 2000-2008][Kuomintang 2008-]

4 Related posts and more info (in traditional Chinese)

[Gates of Taipei Wikipedia][Gates overview: 城門的建築型式][Blog post with maps]
[Blog post about history of Taipei's walls and gates][NCYU article about the gates]


[My TAIPEI page][My TAIWAN page][All marked photos by MKL, 2010]
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Saturday, July 24, 2010

My weird Korea experience

Getting stuck in the subway always sucks



Do you ever remember someone you only met once and never before? Yesterday before sleeping I remembered a girl I only met one time and I'm very sorry for what happened. I feel guilty. It was my second day in Seoul, it was morning, maybe around 11 am. I left my hostel to the nearby Hansung University subway station. I wasn't really familiar with the Seoul subway system, a day before I got stuck at the turnstiles in the photo above. I couldn't exit and was trapped inside. At last someone helped me and I was released. I knew it was my mistake, but nobody blamed me, they were all friendly. One young guy came to me, spoke English and helped me to buy the smart card. I went to the hostel relieved.

Then came the next morning. Same station, same turnstiles. This time I try to enter. I tap my card... Nothing. I tap again... Nothing. So I back off a little and let some people go through just to see how they do it. They do it fast: Tap, push turnstile, walk away. Looks so easy. I try again... and fail! I was frustrated and looked helpless. I stood there for a while, when a young girl, who looked like a student in her early twenties, came to me and offered help. She didn't speak English, I didn't speak Korean, but we knew what the problem was. She took my smart card and placed it on the scanner for me. It worked... but... you only have a second to walk through the turnstile, if not it gets stuck again. I didn't know that and instead of walking through quickly, I was thanking her. When I finally tried to walk through, the turnstile got stuck again. And my card was already tapped. Bummer.

So we stood there briefly and while I was wondering what to do, she took out her smart card, tapped it and asked me to go through. This time I wasn't hesitating, I moved fast. Once inside, I gently bowed, said gomawo and tried to somehow apologize with sign language for troubling her. She just smiled a little and looked for something in her purse. She looked a bit embarrassed. I left to the trains and felt really bad, because I didn't want to bother the locals on my trip.

Of course it was partly her fault, too, because she tapped my card very quickly and I wasn't expecting, that the turnstile will get stuck, if I don't move quickly enough. But how could she have known that? She just wanted to help. And she was immediately feeling bad and used her card for me to go through. It was just an unfortunate situation. Later I was thinking, whether she arrived late to her meeting or whether this situation affected whatever plans she had for that day. I hope not. I also wondered, if she had told her friends about a silly foreigner, who didn't know how to tap the card in the subway and made her come late. I'd love to hear her side of the story. But I probably never will.

That's what I was thinking yesterday before sleeping. What a weird experience. Luckily, that never happened to me again, I had no problems on Seoul's subway in the following days. It was one of the best trips I ever went on. I hope the girl is fine, but I wonder, if she'd ever help a foreigner like me again.

[gomawo means thank you][Photo by MKL, 2010]
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Monday, July 19, 2010

National Revolutionary Martyrs' Shrine, Taipei

In honor and memory of the war dead of the Republic of China

The main gate.

National Revolutionary Martyrs' Shrine in Taipei (Chinese 國民革命忠烈祠) is a special place dedicated to the soldiers of Republic of China (official name of Taiwan today, but the state was founded in 1911), who died for their country in past wars, such as in the Chinese Civil war and few others (more info here). It's a solemn place, but it's also open to visitors, so if you're visiting Taipei, it's definitely one of the places you should see. If you're interested in the history of Republic of China, you should visit the Martyrs' Shrine along with the Chiang Kai-shek Memorial Hall and Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall. All there places are admission free.

A huge gate at the entrance of the Martyrs' Shrine with a guarding soldier.

The main gate from up close.

The main gate from the inside.


The National Revolutionary Martyrs' Shrine was built in 1969. The photos here were made by my girlfriend, who visited the the shrine today, but she did not take photos of the main building. You can see a photo here (by H&XL). That building is supposed to resemble the Hall of Supreme Harmony in Beijing. But my girlfriend said it's being renovated currently, keep that in mind, if you plan to make photos of the shrine these days.

On the left photo you can see a soldier guarding the main gate. They have to stand still for 1h hour. No movements are allowed. They only have someone, who wipes of the sweat from their faces. Every full hour there is a changing of the guards ceremony and it's really worth to see. If you haven't seen that yet, check the embedded video below.

The soldiers, who get the honor of being guards at the Martyr's Shrine need to meet some qualifications: No criminal history, at least a high school education, be between 175cm - 195cm tall, weigh 65kg (± 1kg) and need to have a lot of discipline (source). As you may imagine, only the best of the best are eligible to guard one of the most important places of remembrance in the Republic of China.

The changing of the guards ceremony.

Rwo kinds of uniforms, blue soldiers are from the Air Force, white from the Navy.

Changing of the guards (Seen a woman with a baby passing by?)

The shrine is located near another famous building: The Grand Hotel.

I had to post these photos here, because they're really good. Thanks again to my girl, who took the time to visit the place and made these great shots. Taipei is so hot this summer, you can see that in the last photo, but that makes the photos pretty good. Let's take a second and think about those soldiers, who have to stand under the scorching sun of Taipei for a full hour without moving. I admit, I would not be able to do this. I'm not soldier material. How about you?

[Military of the Republic of China][All photos by LilyChen, 2010]
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Saturday, July 17, 2010

When White guys speak East Asian langauges, it's amazing!

When East Asian guys speak European languages, it's not. Why?

tysstyle - Canadian guy speaking Mandarin

MrHarlequin2009 - French guy speaking Japanese

Have you ever noticed, that if White guys speak one of the big East Asian languages (Mandarin, Cantonese, Japanese or Korean), it's totally amazing. Everyone's like: Wow, impressive. Dude, you're so cool. And of course many East Asian girls would say it's so cute to see a White guy speak their native language, even if it sounds broken or the knowledge is limited. A little effort from White guys would massively increase their chances with East Asian girls.

On the other hand, if East Asian guys speak one of the big European languages (such as English, German, French or Spanish), it's not seen as amazing at all. Nobody's like: Wow, impressive. Dude, you're so cool. And of course most of White girls would not think it's cute to see East Asian guys speak their native language. If it sounds broken or the knowledge is limited, it would rather appear funny than cool. East Asian guys can put a lot of effort in learning a European language, however that won't increase their chances with White girls.

How come there's such a big difference?

[Photo by Lawel Style]

Back to the White guys, who speak an East Asian language perfectly. Do you know Mark Henry Roswell? He's probably the most famous Westerner (a Canadian) in China and he's speaking Mandarin like a native speaker. Everybody knows him under the name Dashan (大山, lit. "big mountain"), check this amazing video. Then there's Julien Gaudfroy, a Frenchman doing stand-up comedy in Mandarin. Or Pierre Deporte, the first White guy (he's also French) who starred in a leading role in a Korean drama. It was called Tamra, the Island, aired in 2009 (*video with Pierre's fluent Korean). Of course there are many more Western guys, who speak one of the East Asian languages and they're not famous. You can find a lot of them on You-Tube, such as the two funny guys on the video below. So what's your opinion on Westerners or Whites in particular learning East Asian languages. Is it for the career? Interest in culture? Looking for love or sex?
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Thursday, July 15, 2010

A famous blogger interviewed me!

Johana Hill grilled me!

I should have told you this before, but I was scared. I'm still electrified from what happened. But now I feel brave enough to tell you: I was interviewed by a famous blogger, by the fantabulous Johana Hill, the sexy blogette from the island O'luv. Let me tell you, how it all went down. Those who read Johana's blog, know how hot she's is and how many guys go woooooooooooh when she passes by. Then you can imagine how I was nervous, when I saw her curvaceous self approaching me in her killer heels. She opened the big gate of her villa by herself and I was surprised, that she told her security personnel to back off. She walked slowly and gracefully towards me, I was trembling and sweating from every pore. She gave me three air kisses on the cheeks and then gently took my hand and walked me to her interview room. We sat on stiletto shaped pink chairs, she crossed her legs slowly and I asked her to bring a towel, because my sweat was like a shower to me. She chuckled, when she saw me frantically wiping my face, then put on her sexy glasses, lit herself a cigarette and started to read the first question to me. I totally cramped, started to stutter, the situation was killing me. But since I've agreed to do the interview, I had no choice, I had to be strong and make it through alive! I tried my best to give some good answers to her killer questions. If I did well, I don't know... You can find that out for yourself, the interview was published here.

And don't forget to follow Joahana Hill. She's awe-sum! :-)
Photo sources: [1, 2]
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Wednesday, July 14, 2010

How to trick people into thinking you're good looking

A hilarious and intelligent video by JennaMarbles


This video has over 3 million views at this moment and I'm sure it'll become even more popular in no time. JennaMarbles, the creator of the video, is really hilarious and although she's very funny, she does make serious points. Her point is: These days almost every girl can look hot, if she has good make up skills and fashion sense.

What do you think on the issue? Most of you would probably say you prefer a natural look. But then again, natural could also mean naked or with a leaf in front of your private parts ;-) I think once mankind started to take daily baths, combing and/or cutting hair and wearing clothes, we bassically said Eff you, nature.

Chinese blogger 妮妮 is a great example of extreme makeover (source).

I don't really feel turned off by fake eye lashes, dyed hair and a lot of make up. It all comes down to how it's done. And of course I still need to like the girl, when she removes everything. When it comes to my girlfriend, she looks good with heavy, light or no make-up, because she's naturally cute. But if the difference was as big like in the case of a Taiwanese blogger or the Chinese girl on the photo above, then I'd say "thanks but no thanks." :-) How about you?
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Monday, July 12, 2010

Iker Casillas must be the most romantic football player in the world!

...and Sara Carbonero is one lucky woman!


Iker Casillas, the Spanish goalkeeper, is currently dating one of the most beautiful Spanish journalists Sara Carbonero. After the game, they tried to do an interview, but you can imagine being a couple and holding back your emotions in the given circumstances is really hard. Iker just couldn't bear it anymore and he gave us one of the most romantic moments in sport history. I'm so glad we have YouTube. I almost teared up, when I saw the clip. Girls, what do you think?
Iker Casillas sealed Spain's World Cup win with a kiss in front of millions of watching TV fans.
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Spain beat Holland and won the World Cup 2010

The game was a bit disappointing, but there was drama

The Dutch Nigel De Jong kicking Xabi Alonso in the chest like Bruce Lee!

Spain beat the Netherlands 1:0 and won the 19th FIFA World Cup. Congratulations! The game was sometimes really hard to watch, because there were too many fouls and too many yellow cards. The game was ugly, it was a battle. Neither Holland, nor Spain played for the spectators, the fought to win. And after 90min we had no winner, it took Spain 116min to finally score, just few minutes before we expected penalty shootouts. It must've really been painful for the Dutch fans to see how they lost almost in last minute. What a pity. I really rooted for the Netherlands, but in the end, Spain was the better team and they deserved to win. They're dominating world football in the recent years, it's unbelievable how strong they are. Will they face their downfall in 2012? We'll see. I can't wait for the qualifications to start, I hope Slovenia will qualify.

The man of the Match: Andrés Iniesta, who scored 1:0, thanked Paul for his divine help ;-)

You gotta see this clip! It's hilarious!!! :-)

I think everyone would like to be Wesley Snijder tonight. The girl below is his current girlfriend and I'm sure she'll console him tonight. Hey, it's not so bad to lose the World Cup finals after all, is it? :-P

Yolanthe Cabau van Kasbergen, half Spanish, half Dutch model.

THIS IS MY LAST WORLD CUP 2010 POST. It was really an entertaining month for me. I was lucky too see most of the games, if not all of them. Sometimes I stopped watching one, because it was pretty boring, but that was in the beginning, before the elimination phase, Chile - Honduras would be one of these games. But even though some games were not really good during the first 2 weeks, I really loved those days, where I could see 2 games a day and my home country Slovenia was part of all that. I'm always watching the World Cup (since 1990), but when you have your own country participating, it gives you extra thrills. I wish every football fan would have the chance to see his own country be part of the biggest sports event in the world, it's an unforgettable experience. Lucky those from Germany, Italy, France, Spain, Brazil and Argentina! Your teams are almost always qualifying. Nevertheless, I'm happy to be from Slovenia and proud of our young team, that was one of big surprises of the tournament.

Maybe I'll blow this vuvuzela soon O.o

ABOUT THE WORLD CUP: Congratulations to South Africa, the World Cup was organized perfectly. You have a great nation with a great future. I really hope we will see more World Cups in Africa in the future. Everything was top, only one thing could've been less dominant: the vuvuzela. I'm happy not to hear the beehive sound anymore, but my girlfriend just bought one (for fun) and I guess, if I misbehave, she'll punish me by blowing that thing in my ear :-P Ok, I admit, I wasn't really bothered by the vuvuzela so much in the elimination phase, that sound somehow became part of the game, it was like white noise. We'll see, how the vuvuzela story continues in the upcoming months.

Like every World Cup, this one also made some people (and pulpas) rise to fame. Diego Forlán became the best player of the tournament, Paul the Octopus Almighty predicted all the games right, the top 3 teams of the tournament were European. New stars emerged like the Uruguayan Diego Forlán, Thomas Müller and Mesut Ösil from Germany, David Villa from Spain, Wesley Snijder from Netherlands and many more. But there were also so called superstars who totally disappointed like Rooney and Messi. Big teams like Italy, France, Argentina and Brazil went home pretty early and surprised everybody, especially those who love to bet. Underdogs like Uruguay, Paraguay and Ghana came pretty far. And who would've predicted Holland in the finals? Well.. I did. :-P But I totally missed Spain, I thought Argentina will go all the way... I was so wrong. But that's football. The most exciting thing in the world (besides sex, hohoho). I'm looking forward to Brazil 2014, how about you?

  • How did you like this World Cup?
  • What were your best and worst moments?
  • What or who surprised you the most?
[Photos 1, 2, 3: Source, Vuvuzela photo by MKL, 2010]
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Saturday, July 10, 2010

My LOLcat is hot

My family has a new cat named Mica (pronounced Meetsa). It's so hot here these days, but we don't have an aircon, so she sometimes lifts up her long tail to get some fresh air to her bottom area (or so I assume). She's really funny. And only 3 months old, but so noisy and playful and always making funny noises. Not meowing, but more like murmuring. I think she'll give me many LOLcat moments. I'll post some more pics in the future, in case I capture a funny one. I think Mica looks a bit like Jaimie Tse's Iris, but she's less fluffy. Who's the biggest LOLcat? I say it's Mica. What say you, Jaimie?
[photo by MKL, 2010]
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Thursday, July 8, 2010

Paul the Octopus fed up with Germany: Spain wins!

Spain beat Germany in one of their best games so far - Germans are devastated

Everyone was talking about Germany lately, about the supposedly strongest team at the FIFA World Cup 2010. Even Germans themselves thought so, they were full of pride and confidence. Everything seemed to be going fine for them, they were winning like there's no tomorrow and laughing at their competitors. But then they made one big mistake: They messed with Paul the Octopus! They mocked him. German TV RTL dared to say that he will be wrong and if he's right, he'll be deep fried. That was a deadly joke. Spain beat Germany 1:0 tonight and German players were devastated after the game, crying and sobbing like little boys.

From now on everyone knows: Paul is always right. Paul doesn't predict the result, he makes the result! Never question Paul, never threaten Paul. Paul is holy.

This is what happened: Germany had one of the easiest Groups, however they beat the weak Aussies, lost against the medium strong Serbians and struggled against the surprisingly strong Ghana. And then they faced England in the Round of 16.

Germany won 4:1 and made fun of them.

Every German was happy and confident.

Then they beat Argentina 4:0.

That was the only great game they played.

But the match was overshadowed by Boogergate.

And then there were the semi finals. Spain, the current European champions, were the competitor and Germany dared to pester Paul the Octopus again, because they wanted to know, whether they will win or not. They thought Paul predicts the winner. They were so wrong. He was already fed up with them and all the jokes about other nations' teams.

In all fairness to the Germans, England had their own share of confidence, that was beyond the common sense. But well... all that is part of football :-)

Those were the times, huh? :-P

I'm just happy, that we'll get a totally new World Cup winner. And although I think Spain has a better chance to win, I will be rooting for the Netherlands. On July 11, I will be wearing oranje. Both teams deserve to win, but who would not like to see the sexy Dutch football fans go crazy?

Who are you rooting for, Spain or Oranjelands?

[Photo sources: 1, 2, 3, 4, 6, 7]
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Wednesday, July 7, 2010

About obnoxious Western people in the Far East

And the racist media, that drives the stereotypes


I found this short video on YouTube of a bunch of young Americans (or were they Canadians?) taking the subway in Japan (most probably in Tokyo) and being noisy, pestering people around them and talking nonsense. Sorry to say to my American friends, but your reputation in East Asia is not good, especially in South Korea and parts of Japan (due to heavy military presence), China (political issues) and Taiwan (young expatriates). And Canadians are slowly catching up, because of some people who come to work as English teachers and get drunk one too many times or even get involved in fights or generally disrespect the local culture and women. And behavior like seen in the video doesn't help to improve the bad image, does it? Even, if you're just a visitor, a tourist, it doesn't give you the right to behave the way you do at home. But I guess some people just don't care. And then things like this happen and I'm not surprised at all.

Of course on the other side, there's also a lot of nationalism or racism in East Asian countries as well. Sometimes all foreigners from the West are lumped together and seen as "bad, arrogant, aloof, criminals, having no morals, disregarding the local culture etc." And it's not only driven by common people, but mostly by the media. It's a vicious circle and that's certainly not good for both sides. Europeans are still lucky, but that's because we're less known. We weren't really engaged in East Asia a lot in the past 50 years, be it militarily or as expatriate language teachers, like the current flock of young people, who most often come from USA, Canada and Australia. And believe me, we have some pretty obnoxious people in Europe, too.

With all that said, let me stress, that I do not believe (or try to imply here) that the majority of Americans and Canadians, who go to Asia, behave in a bad way (or that Europeans are better than them). I'm just talking about the stereotypes. Those who behave bad are in a big minority. And of course the media will rather drive (or blow up) the the story of a drunk foreign English teacher involved in a brawl rather than tell the stories of hundreds of polite foreigners, who respect the locals, speak their language and blend in perfectly. The media in the Far East, especially in South Korea, is constantly implying "that foreigners were going out there with the intent to make trouble..." (Metropolitician, 2008, Tips To Avoid Being Assaulted in Korea). Media making up or distorting a story about foreigners in East Asia is not a new thing and we (the foreigners) need to be very careful not to give them unneccessary material. And another thing I need to add: The White Westerners have it much easier in the Far East than those foreigners of African descent. I'm fully aware of that while writing this, but that's a whole 'nother topic. You can read more about that here.

When I'm in Asia, I try my best to represent my culture and my country well. I usually say I'm Slovenian or European (or both), depends on the situation. Sometimes I'm too tired to explain where Slovenia is, so I just say I'm from Europe. It's funny how people almost by default assume I was American. And if you read the paragraphs above, being seen as American in Asia is not always good. On the other hand, my girlfriend says I totally look "European" on the outside (whatever "looking European" is), and dress and behave like one (?). I wonder, what makes us Europeans so different from North Americans on the outside. Any ideas?

I must say, it's not only the bad reputation of Canadians and Americans in East Asia, that makes me stress my Slovenian and European heritage, but it's the pride of being who I am and where I come from and the fact, that we're still different, even though we're all Westerners. Even Americans and Canadians are different and don't want to be seen as same (even though they many times are seen as same). In the end, I hope people would be seen as the individuals they are and without prejudice or stereotypes, that are attached to the group they belong. Of course, that's wishful thinking, because foreigners face prejudice everywhere, in East Asia, in North America and also in Europe. That's why the struggle goes on. We'll need decades to really get to know each other well. But will we really get along and respect each other? I'm positive and I'll say eventually we will.

  • What do you think about the people in the video?
  • What are your thoughts on all the issues I pointed out?
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Sunday, July 4, 2010

Adrift


You know, life bears many surprises, every day, every week, every month, every year. Would you have known where you are today a year ago? Probably not. Young people of today are dynamic, we travel cross the world, we live a bit here, a bit there... and the we blog about it. We share our experiences. And what did I realize? I realized that living in another country bears many challenges, but it's also very rewarding. But one thing it's for sure: It never gets boring.

My Taiwan adventure has come to halt for now. I'm officially back in Slovenia, but I take this more as vacation than anything else. I had to return home for reasons I don't want to disclose here, all I can say is, I had a great time in the past few months. Although my blog gave you the impression that I'm constantly traveling and enjoying myself with my cute girlfriend, that wasn't always the case. Yes, I had a lot of fun, especially on the weekends, where my girl and I had time to go to places and spend the days together. But in between she was working and I was working, too. It was a very valuable experience for me, the people who I was working for, were very sad to see me leave, on the last day they even gathered to wish me good luck on my way back. This chapter is now closed for me, but I need to add: I will be back soon. Oh yeah. I decided to spend the summer here and my Taiwanese girlfriend will visit me next month! I'm so excited :-D I will show her a little bit of Vienna and a whole lot of Slovenia, maybe even parts of Italy or Hungary. We'll see what's possible in the 2 weeks she'll stay here at my family's house.

Sometimes we do our best, but it's still not enough and we have to stop for a moment, accept the facts and set new objectives for ourselves. At the time when that happens, we feel frustrated, but then our life goes on. And in a year, two or three we look back again to that same moment and realize that what seemed to be bad luck turns out as a blessing in disguise. I believe that this is the case in my current situation. I'm actually totally fine now, but one thing is really hard: I'm missing my girl. I'm missing her every day, every moment. I have never cried so hard at any airport so far. She's totally under my skin... I love her. But I'm not looking back anymore, only forward. I'll greet her in Europe soon and then you'll be able to read "Cute Taiwanese girl's Slovenia adventures" :-) I'm sure it'll be tons of fun. I'll still be blogging about Taiwan, less here on my blue blog and more on my green blog, which will also be full of not only Taiwan related topics, but also a lot about my travels from the past, which I haven't written about yet (such as Hong Kong...), Asian women, funny crazy stuff, random.. Expect the unexpected (business as usual, hehe).

Please subscribe to my green blog, if you're interested or follow via Google friend connect. And keep following here, too. I really appreciate it. I'm a bit adrift these days, trying to realize, that my body is in Slovenia, while my head is still in Taiwan. Your support really means a lot to me, your comments crack me up. I love you, guys. Let's have a great 2010 together, shall we? :-)

[Photo from Bangkok airport, stopover on the way home, by MKL, 2010]
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I have no fashion sense!

Read about my fashion fail

Imagine it's summer and your girlfriend says she bought a pair of new high heels. Of course you're excited, because which man doesn't like to see his girl showing off her sexy legs in the hottest of the seasons? Well, I certainly do. That's why I was very happy, when she told me, that she got a pair of new fashionable shoes with high heels, that are very popular in Taiwan. Of course I was picturing shoes like the ones on the left photo. Hey, I'm a simple guy and when it comes to fashion, I like things simple and sexy. But... women are different. So what happened?

Well, she bought these shoes:

I thought: What is that upper part for? O.o

Are these heels or boots? Or should I call them "hoots"? :-P [Source and more photos]

I was shocked first and thought the shoes really don't look good. Actually they wouldn't look so bad to me, if it wasn't for the upper part. I mean it's summer, why do you need that for? So when my girl told me, that these shoes are totally in now, I replied that it may be popular in Taiwan, but certainly not in Slovenia or Europe. I said, I'll ask my sister, who's working at a shoe shop, about her opinion. I expected she'll say something like: The shoes are ugly. Guess what? I was wrong again. O.o My sister also loves them and she says they're totally in now and look very good. I apologized to my girlfriend and acknowledged, that I totally have no clue about the latest shoe fashion, even if I follow bloggers such as Carina or Karen ×_×

Now tell me, did I totally fail, because the shoes look really great?
Or are you on my side and think the shoes don't look good at all?

[Photo 1 by Kendo, Photos 2, 3]
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Thursday, July 1, 2010

About the young people of Taiwan

How I see Taiwanese people in 2010


Read the same post in Chinese (中文): 我如何看台灣的年輕人>>

I have written about how I see Koreans and another post about Korean women, but I've never took the time to write about the Taiwanese, the people who became so close to me. There can be so much said and written about them, that I think I could write several posts, but I'll try to write down the most important things here and focus only Taiwan's young people, who are this country's hope for the future: Let's talk about the young people of Taiwan.

Oh, Taiwan: The funny thing about Taiwan is, that it is an independent state and at the same time it is not an independent state. It has its own government, own military, own history, own currency, own culture... basically everything that an independent state should have. However, Taiwan (officially Republic of China) is not internationally recognized as a sovereign state and the communist China claims that Taiwan was merely its province and constantly threatens with war, should Taiwan proclaim itself as a fully independent state. And that puts Taiwan and its people in a kind of a Kafkaesque situation: Everything is unclear, everything is contradictory, but people still find a way to live and survive in this surreal political situation.


The past: But the Taiwanese people don't only suffer from the long lasting political conflict between Taipei and Beijing. Inside their own country they are a greatly divided nation, especially the north with Taipei, which is more pro China and the south with Kaohsiung, which is very pro independence. You have to know, that Taiwan used to be part of China in the past, then part of Japan for 50 years and after World War II, the people suffered under a military rule of the Chinese nationalists. In 1949 some 2 million nationalists from mainland China, who retreated from the Communists while fighting for the power over whole China (read more about Chinese civil war), came to Taiwan to establish what was initially meant to be a temporary state. Their leader Chiang Kai-shek was determined to one day return to Beijing and become the president of whole China. But that did never happen. He merely remained the president (read dictator) of Taiwan, which he saw as the continuation of the in 1911 established Republic of China. He died in 1975 and a temporary solution became a fully functioning state with its own identity. You have to know that most Taiwanese suffered under Chiang Kai-shek and his nearly 40 years long lasting martial law, that limited people's freedoms (read more) and forced them to speak Mandarin instead of their native dialect Taiwanese. Taiwan turned into a democracy in the late 1980s and transformed quickly to a modern bustling economy and a high-tech nation.

So here you have a nation, that went through so many changes in the past 100 years and all these factors are important to understand the young Taiwanese people of today.

Modern Taipei: Xinyi at night.

The present Taiwanese: The young Taiwanese of today were born during the democratic era, which makes them very different from those older folks, who experienced a lot of hard times in the past. Taiwan today is a successful modern state and its young people are seeing things with different eyes than their parents. Most young and educated Taiwanese speak Mandarin, while the older generation or people from the rural areas speak Taiwanese. Politically the young people are much more pro-Taiwan and less pro-China than the highly divided older generation.

Young Taiwanese want to be seen as Taiwanese first, but they know that they also belong to the Chinese culture, which one of the biggest and oldest cultures in the world. However, the way of life in Taiwan is closer to that of South Korea and Japan rather than to China. Many Taiwanese would proudly say, that they also have some Japanese blood, which is the result of the past Japanese rule over Taiwan.

Sexy promoters in Taipei working hard. Taken in Xinyi.

Taiwanese are hardworking people. It seems that work and family are the two pillars of their society. Respecting the elders is a must and working all day, even over time is expected. I think the latter is a real problem, because life shouldn't be only about pleasing the boss and pleasing the family. In recent years many young Taiwanese go their own way, do crazy things like one blogger, who went to Paris to kiss 100 strangers and blogged about it. Things like that stir are still controversial in Taiwan, while in Europe we merely chuckle about them. But that's because Taiwan is still in a transition. The top-down society is loosening up, being individual is slowly becoming acceptable. It's not always and everywhere, but it's not a taboo anymore.

There are thousands of albums of Taiwanese girls on Wretch (source).

Speaking of blogging, young Taiwanese love to blog or share their photos on websites such as Wretch, Pixnet and Roodo, which are massively popular. It seems that, if you don't have a Wretch account, you're not cool or up to date. And young Taiwanese take blogging very seriously. Unlike me and some of you, who sometimes write random nonsense (no offence :-P), Taiwanese bloggers mostly write very well-elaborated posts about make up products, fashion, travel and food. Many of them get paid for the reviews they write and some of them are so popular, their blogs get millions of visitors and can enjoy a good life merely from blogging. They become celebrities, who advertise products for a lot of money, travel to places for free and write about their fabulous lives... and most of their readers admire them.

Some of those famous bloggers are: IllyQueen, Cwwany, Bajenny, Onion_club, Amaryilliss, Milktea, Off60, Christabelle and many more. However, the two most popular blogs are PlayPcesor and Briian.com and are owned by guys, who write about computers and software. Check a list of the most popular Taiwanese bloggers here.

Lily's Murmur, my favorite Taiwanese blog
My favorite Taiwanese blogger is Lily Chen.

Interests and hobbies. Usually the young guys are into computers and photography, while most girls are into fashion and make up (no surprises here, right?). And all young Taiwanese are crazy about food. Food in Taiwan is like a holy thing: It's everywhere, it's worshiped and it's highly enjoyed. Young Taiwanese love to recommend restaurants, night markets and hawkers. When it comes to food, everyone's a food critic, people distinguish between poor and excellent food and usually demand the best quality.

Of course young people love to party, too. There are many awesome clubs in Taipei. If you want to see some amazing photos of Taiwan's night scene, check Steven Vigar's clubbing in Taiwan. But unlike in the West or Korea, young people usually don't get drunk, which is very pleasant. And Taiwanese are a nation of singers. They love to go to Karaoke bars (KTV) or even take part in several singing competitions on TV, that are similar to American Idol. Taiwan is full of young talented singers. Do you remember Lin Yu Chun? Just few months ago he became famous with this stunning performance.

Girls and guys like them are common in Xinyi, Taipei.

Back to fashion: Fashion is huge in Taiwan, but I should rather say Taipei. When you go to big cities like Taichung or Kaohsiung, fashion is still important in some parts, but Taipei is something else. And many young people, who come from all parts of Taiwan to work in Taipei start to dress up well, girls use more make up and dress more womanly. Taipei is not only the administrative capital, it's also the fashion capital. Although Taiwan is a fairly small country, it's very diverse when it comes to fashion and styles.

A Taiwanese couple in Xinyi. Taken in Feb 2010.

Teenagers in Ximending (Taipei) are famous for having crazy styles.

You can also see lots of fashionable guys and girls in Ximending.

There are so many different types of young Taiwanese guys and girls, it would need a lot of research to define all of them. You can see young lorry drivers, who chew betel nuts and don't care much about how they look like, to neat and clean guys in suits, who look like movie stars. They're probably the upper class and highly educated, well mannered and well traveled. I'll let other bloggers write about Taiwanese guys, I rather focus on... you know who ;-)

Taiwanese girls love to dress sexy, but not trashy. High-heels are a must (source).

When it comes to girls, it's a bit different. Most Taiwanese girls in and around Taipei take good care of themselves and that consists of a healthy diet (most girls are very slim), using various beauty products like creams and masks and a dress very womanly. You can see a lot of girls in high heels, skirts and stockings walking on Taipei's streets or riding scooters. Oh yeah, you think Italy is "Scooterland"? Come to Taiwan and you'll be totally proved wrong. And trust me, when I tell you, that you'll see some of the most beautiful girls and women, if you ever travel to Taipei, you can be sure of that.

Another thing that's pretty common in Taiwan this year are fake eyelashes. They're much more popular than anywhere I've been before in Asia (and that includes Singapore, Kuala Lumpur, Hong Kong, Macau and Seoul). Most Taiwanese girls have long straight hair, usually dyed in brown tones, blonde is very uncommon. And so many young girls, especially teenagers love bangs. Sometimes they are so thick, it looks hilarious. This photo comes close to that. Taiwanese girls want to appear young, which leads to a phenomenon, where women over 30 (sometimes even over 40) dress like people 10 years younger than them. And some can even pull that off, because they really look much younger than their age. The "culture of cuteness" (influence of Japan) is very strong in Taiwan. Girls want to be cute, cute is desirable for old and young, so many things can be ke ai (可愛), from accessories to bags, from clothes to watches, key chains and stcikers. Cute stuff makes Taiwanese girls and women happy. And they love to shop online. Online shopping is really big in Taiwan and many girls order things together and then get a big shipment of clothes (usually from China, Japan or Korea), meet up and distribute the clothes among themselves. I've seen that first hand and I must say the girls were very happy. Here are some links of popular Taiwanese online shops recommended by my girlfriend: [Makeup] [Clothes] [Bikinis] [Shoes].

Taiwanese TV at night is full of sexy girls in skimpy clothes.

My impression. How are young Taiwanese really? It's hard to say, I must admit. In some regards they are like other East Asians, in some ways they're same as young Europeans, but they also have some very uniquely Taiwanese traits. In the end, every individual is different and deserves a chance to be judged by their own actions, rather than being defined by a stereotype, be it a positive or a negative one, so take my observation with a pinch of salt.

My experiences: I must say I mostly had pleasant experiences with young Taiwanese. I can give you one example: There was a Hi-Life (a convenience store) near my apartment and I went there daily to buy some food or drinks, usually for my coffee. A nice young guy, probably around 20 years old, worked there and seemed to be excited to see a foreigner coming to his store. It started by him asking, if I was American. And it continued with a kind of a language exchange every day, because he always tried to speak English with me. Once he had given me a straw and then asked, how is that named in English? I replied: "Straw". And he would repeat that and then teach me: 吸管 (xī guǎn), which is the Chinese equivalent. I remember he once called a friend and they showed me a word they did not understand. Guess what, it was "chimney". You have to know Taiwanese don't have houses with chimneys, usually they don't heat during winter like we do in Europe, so I had to explain the meaning to him with a lot of sign language.

Young Taiwanese love to ride scooters.

Generally speaking: Taiwanese are usually shy but friendly in the beginning, but once you get to know them better, they open up and become very loyal friends. I've encountered all kinds of people in Taipei, from those who stared at me to those who smiled at me, even waved to me, like that one guy, who sat beside a temple and saw me taking photos. I remember once a girl in Ximending said hello to me, when I passed by and she caught me off guard. I wasn't expecting something like that, so I just said hello back and walked on. Another time a girl asked my girlfriend, if she could take a photo of us and we smilingly agreed. I once had a young guy helping me with directions, when he saw me being lost and trying to read a big Taipei map.

I think the biggest problem between foreigners and Taiwanese is the language barrier. Even though you can see language schools on every corner in Taipei, Taiwanese usually don't speak English well and foreigners on the other hand don't speak enough Mandarin to be able to have a decent conversation with each other, that goes beyond the usual small talk. Language is always the key that opens the most doors.

Young people in Hsinchu love to gather for rock concerts.

I will continue to learn Mandarin and continue to make friends in Taiwan, because I think they're great and generous people. I'm very hopeful for Taiwan's youth and the future that lays ahead of them.

If you have anything to add, what I have missed, please comment below. Thanks.

[Taiwan][Taipei][All photos by MKL, 2010, except where otherwise noted]
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