Let's tear down some walls
So long, best year of my life!
This is the biggest wall I ever made. Hope it'll last for decades.
What a year this was for me. A year of travel, love, new horizons, new food and new adventures. A year of many ups and few downs. A year of work, saving and enjoying. I've seen all of Taiwan and Slovenia this year, went on a trip to Macau and Seoul, toured Vienna twice, saw Bratislava, Trieste and Gorizia for the first time. I helped replacing the old roof on our house, we worked on it for 3 weeks. I constructed 3 walls in our basements and helped to pave a 10m long road near our house. I was lucky to buy me a new laptop, which helped me to blog faster and easier. In the end I even won a blog award with the help of my awesome friends. Looks like everything was somehow paying off this year. I wasn't already there where I thought I'll be by the end of 2009 (read my resolutions), but I'm happy how things turned out. I have never thought I would see Seoul and Korea so fast, I never thought I would go on such a big road trip with my girlfriend and have so much fun. There are so many more things I have not anticipated this year, too many to list them here.
So what's next in store for me? I have no idea. I have plans, hopes and dreams for next year. Moving to Taiwan and tying the knot is not something you do every day. And I hope I can have a good career and a happy harmonious life. Although I love adventures, I need a peaceful environment, where I can retreat. And in recent years it's been too much back and forth, so many travels and changes, it affects me. I need to find my base and hope that will be in Taiwan. I enjoyed my life the way it was, 5 intercontinental trips in 5 years, living in Malaysia, Singapore and Taiwan all together for a year has given me so many new perspectives on life, has broadened my horizons the internet could never do. I love it, when you guys read my travelogues, but my posts could never really give you that atmosphere, that feeling, when you're somewhere in rural Malaysia in a house of friendly Chinese, who cook for you and make you feel special. Or the feeing to walk in a tropical jungle or to dine on top of a super tall skyscraper with your loved one. How many times I arrived and parted in these past years. I connect tears of joy and tears of broken hearts with airports, I love and hate them. Yet, I can't live without them. It's for me hard to live without my laptop, but even that you can take away from me. But don't take away from me the ability to hop on a plane and end up on the other side of the world the next day. My life's a big journey.
I was never sitting on a pile of banknotes, I always invested them in my trips, which were fueled by my hopes and dreams. Maybe next year that will change, but I think only a little. I'm very eager to see Japan and more of Taiwan. But I don't push myself anymore. Whatever will be, will be, I just hope it will be good. You can't really plan a whole year, you can only hope that some goals you set for yourself will be realized. If it's 50%, it's already more than you could dream of. Don't have too many expectations, but don't be aimless. Don't try to push yourself too hard, but don't lack passion. Embrace a new year with all it's dangers, challenges and possibilities. Don't regret a single thing, a mistake, a quarrel, a mishap. The year will pass too quickly and soon you can make it better in another year... and then another... and another.
Thank you everybody, who went on this journey with me the past year (and the past 5 years). It will never be the same again - it will be different - but that doesn't mean it will be worse. I am now 30, experienced and wiser (or that's what I hope). Sometimes I miss the 24 years old me, who had no idea how the world really looked like. I'm not sure, if I am that much happier now, though. But we can't stop ageing, we can't stop the world from changing. What we can do is make sure, that we adjust our pace to its pulse and hope for the best.
Happy 2011, everyone! Let's tear down some old walls.
PS: I've got another award: Blogger of the year by Netster.
This year just doesn't stop surprising me. Thanks so much, bro. I'm speechless.



19 KAFKAESQUE COMMENTS:
Nice and moving text you have here, MKL! I wish you all your dreams come true, whatever they are!
Congratulation for tying the knot also in the year to come. A person you love, being ever for you there, is a solid anchor in one's life.
I wish you a very happy new year!
December 31, 2010 7:53 PM
That was amazing :) Your life HAS been a big adventure so far and I hope it continues to be,in little or juggernaut ways,however you please :)
Happy new year!
*burp*
er..sorry ;)
December 31, 2010 8:10 PM
@Traveling Hawk: Thank you for the well wishes. I'm happy you found my blog. Hope both of us have a great year in 2011, many travels and great moments ;)
@Sweta: Thank you so much. You, too :)
December 31, 2010 9:13 PM
Goodluck, Nino! Cheers to more travels, adventures, and friendships. I'm glad to have known you in the blog world. Happy New Year. Have a safe and peaceful one.
→ R
December 31, 2010 9:40 PM
Yay!! Congratulations on your Netster award Nino!!! :)
It's been great getting to know you too through your blog and maybe one day our travels will have us meet.
Wow, you actually built that wall - pretty cool! Nobody would ever let me build anything...or they really shouldn't LOL
I like a lot of the things you said in this post - you know where you're going....and I'm sure you're just as happy if not going to be happier than the 24 year old self you were. I agree there is the novelty of being young and naive, but aging can be a beautiful thing if we truly live life to the fullest.
I wish you all the best and all the happiness in 2011. You have so much awaiting you! :)
December 31, 2010 10:38 PM
At 30, you have certainly wised up Lil'Bro. Beautiful wrap for 2010. All the best for the coming year and congrats on all the awards ... you deserved them.
Yeah, let's tear down some old walls ... I'm with you!
January 1, 2011 12:52 AM
A new year full of building walls and new parts of a wonderful life! I hope all your dreams will come true!! :)
January 1, 2011 2:18 AM
a beautiful wrap of 2010. more to come dear friend, and 2011 shall be nice to MKL.
January 1, 2011 9:14 AM
Hello! I was here, asking for friendship. ;) Would you like to follow each others blogs? Belated Happy New Year. :D
January 1, 2011 12:20 PM
I'm happier being older too. Maybe that's because I am beginning to grasp/have grasped some of the things that I used to get confused about when I was younger. I love figuring things out. Besides, the view of the route I'll be taking to go forward in life is getting clearer and clearer. I'm happy this way.
January 1, 2011 3:36 PM
Congrats on the awards, Nino. You so deserve them for your effort and great adventures.
I have locked myself up in the Rat's Race in year 2010, and it's blogs like yours that offer me a perspective out of my deep well.
Keep the pics coming, and travel as much as you can. Tying the knot soon? Woot! That will be the start of a new adventure! ^_^
January 1, 2011 4:41 PM
@Russ: Thank you :) Wish you a happy new year, too.
@Karen: Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it a lot :)
@Wenny: Thank you :))
@Daisy: Hehe.. thanks a lot :)
@Lily: Woohoo. Hope so. Thank you :)
@❥ ќʀɨsтɨиɑ: You asked many people by posting the same comment, eh? ;) I see everything.
@Joan: Happy to hear this. You're young, try to learn from other people's mistakes, so you don't to learn from your own ;)
@Shingo: Thank you for your kind words, hopefully I can keep you reading my blog the whole year :)
January 2, 2011 8:16 PM
yay for new year new wall!! :D :D here's to an awesome new year pal!!
woots
January 3, 2011 12:01 AM
For me I only hope I can be younger, but still keep the wise and experienced me like now. I know it's impossible, but somehow I start to have a bit panic about what will be in 2011, maybe I found I am older than most of our "new friends". I wish I could have our own family, stand on our own feet, and stay in a peaceful and stable life in 2011. I know we can, if we stay together, we can make it, I know it.
And we would see Japan and more Taiwan this year. :-)
January 3, 2011 3:29 PM
@Jess: Thank you, hehe...
@Lily: Don't think too much, just be yourself. Oh, yeah, that means you think a lot, hehe. I don't think much about the travels, I only think about you. My main focus are January and February. Hope everything goes well and then we'll have a great start of 2011 :)
January 3, 2011 5:07 PM
Happy New Year, Nino! And may your life together with your beloved be a great one! It has always been a great pleasure reading the blog of a fellow traveler, and I look forward to reading about your life in Taiwan.
2010 has been a "life changing" year for me too, for different reasons, but also involves tearing down old walls and made me realize a lot of things. And now I'm staying true to myself on the path to the future and not regretting a single thing that happened in my life.
Oh well, ready or not, 2011 is here!
January 3, 2011 7:58 PM
This comment might look a bit dull, but seriously, I got inspired by reading this post. Agreed with your points and I know who should I do right now. Thanks Bro, you're truly my idol.
January 5, 2011 3:44 PM
@The Envoy: Thank you. I hope your 2011 will be great as well. Maybe a new start, something that you will feel was a great year of change.
@Stefanie: Thank you, sis, for liking my post. I appreciate it :)
January 5, 2011 5:07 PM
Aw, I like this post.
You sure did accomplish a lot in a year and I'm sure this year will hold just as many surprises!
I really want to go to Japan too...maybe you can go before me and scout out all the most interesting places!
Have a good one!
January 7, 2011 1:10 AM
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