Saturday, July 24, 2010

My weird Korea experience

Getting stuck in the subway always sucks



Do you ever remember someone you only met once and never before? Yesterday before sleeping I remembered a girl I only met one time and I'm very sorry for what happened. I feel guilty. It was my second day in Seoul, it was morning, maybe around 11 am. I left my hostel to the nearby Hansung University subway station. I wasn't really familiar with the Seoul subway system, a day before I got stuck at the turnstiles in the photo above. I couldn't exit and was trapped inside. At last someone helped me and I was released. I knew it was my mistake, but nobody blamed me, they were all friendly. One young guy came to me, spoke English and helped me to buy the smart card. I went to the hostel relieved.

Then came the next morning. Same station, same turnstiles. This time I try to enter. I tap my card... Nothing. I tap again... Nothing. So I back off a little and let some people go through just to see how they do it. They do it fast: Tap, push turnstile, walk away. Looks so easy. I try again... and fail! I was frustrated and looked helpless. I stood there for a while, when a young girl, who looked like a student in her early twenties, came to me and offered help. She didn't speak English, I didn't speak Korean, but we knew what the problem was. She took my smart card and placed it on the scanner for me. It worked... but... you only have a second to walk through the turnstile, if not it gets stuck again. I didn't know that and instead of walking through quickly, I was thanking her. When I finally tried to walk through, the turnstile got stuck again. And my card was already tapped. Bummer.

So we stood there briefly and while I was wondering what to do, she took out her smart card, tapped it and asked me to go through. This time I wasn't hesitating, I moved fast. Once inside, I gently bowed, said gomawo and tried to somehow apologize with sign language for troubling her. She just smiled a little and looked for something in her purse. She looked a bit embarrassed. I left to the trains and felt really bad, because I didn't want to bother the locals on my trip.

Of course it was partly her fault, too, because she tapped my card very quickly and I wasn't expecting, that the turnstile will get stuck, if I don't move quickly enough. But how could she have known that? She just wanted to help. And she was immediately feeling bad and used her card for me to go through. It was just an unfortunate situation. Later I was thinking, whether she arrived late to her meeting or whether this situation affected whatever plans she had for that day. I hope not. I also wondered, if she had told her friends about a silly foreigner, who didn't know how to tap the card in the subway and made her come late. I'd love to hear her side of the story. But I probably never will.

That's what I was thinking yesterday before sleeping. What a weird experience. Luckily, that never happened to me again, I had no problems on Seoul's subway in the following days. It was one of the best trips I ever went on. I hope the girl is fine, but I wonder, if she'd ever help a foreigner like me again.

[gomawo means thank you][Photo by MKL, 2010]

21 KAFKAESQUE COMMENTS:

Floating Camera said...

Hehe dude, you got nothing to feel bad for. You didnt act badly or anything.

Might have actually made her day since she got to help out a foreigner who was stuck ;D


BTW the station looks so similar to Hong Kong train stations!

July 24, 2010 7:40 PM  

chris_lim said...

Haha this is a good experience. Shows that ppl r still willing to help strangers in a sticky situation.

July 24, 2010 8:33 PM  

JaiMie said...

Lol people r nice eh! :) hehehe... Who knows, maybe she reads ur blog secretly :p hehe!

July 24, 2010 11:58 PM  

hida.takayama said...

Nino...that girl......that was actually ME! YES ME! Now you know it..it was my secret all this time....and as you know i do read your blog secretly

July 25, 2010 2:02 AM  

the girl in stiletto said...

hmmmmmm.

i guess it's a good thing i know how to speak english, so that wasn't me.

:p

July 25, 2010 2:08 AM  

... daisy... said...

What a lovely story!
Don't worry about her probably she felt good helping you and you were a foreigner so allowed to make such mistakes!

July 25, 2010 2:14 AM  

ChinkyGirLMeL said...

Awww that was nice of her. I'm sure she didn't mind helping you out. She probably met up with friends after and told them that she helped out a cute foreigner.;p

July 25, 2010 2:24 AM  

adamantixx said...

i try to avoid any sort of technology like that as i can never operate anything...like those serve-yourself checkouts in supermarkets...i'd only make a fool of myself.

July 25, 2010 2:50 AM  

Gnetch said...

Aw, she's so nice. And I think she understood why you didn't know how to tap the card. You don't live there. And I'm sure she didn't mind helping you out because you know how to say thank you. :)

July 25, 2010 8:36 AM  

Jamaipanese said...

this makes ,e wonder what my weird experience(s) in Japan will be and if I will have a cute rescuer!

July 25, 2010 12:40 PM  

Karen said...

I would be really relieved if that happened to me in another country and a good samaritan helped out! I can imagine how frustrating and embarrassing it would be to be in that situation.. I think she was happy to help, because the kind of people who choose to help in the first place also usually feel intrinsic value and satisfaction from that :) Just my opinion. You're right, I didn't see many girls with buns in Taiwan.. now I just need to drop by Korea haha. As for the nails, I love cute things but I took off the minion in just 2 days cuz it's actually too kiddy for me :P

July 25, 2010 2:30 PM  

The Envoy said...

Another day in the subway....

July 25, 2010 11:49 PM  

Carina the Blogarina said...

This shouldn't be Called the weird story, but the kind story. It shows Koreans in a good light :)You shouldn't feel bad about "bothering" the locals.Think about it, if a foreigner was confused at a subway station in Slovenia you wouldn't feel bad if you had helped out. And it couldn't have taken more then a few seconds so it probably didn't make her late for anything. If I had been her, and I was late for a meeting.. I wouldn't have stopped. I wouldn't feel bad about it at all :)

July 26, 2010 5:42 AM  

Karen said...

That's really kind of her let you use her pass to get through the turnstiles :) But I know what you mean - I sometimes think back to random acts of kindness as well. I'm sure she would help out another foreigner sometime - if she helped you, it's probably in her character that she likes to help people don't you think so?
But gosh, that train in Seoul sounds confusing to get onto. I don't think I can do it really quickly either!

July 26, 2010 5:26 PM  

MKL said...

@FloatingCamera: Thanks. I feel better with you saying that.

@Chris: Koreans were very nice and helpful to me :)

@Jaimie: I wish :)

@Saša: Whatt? You? :P

@Ejann: It wasn't you. She wasn't tall ;)

@Daisy: Thanks for comforting me :)

@Mel: I hope she did that :)

@adamantixx: So avoid traveling to big Asian cities ;)

@Gnetch: I was totally lost, haha. It's a real bummer when you're in a foreign country. But I survived :)

@Jamaipanese: Looking fwd to read your travelogue :)

@Karen USA: Haha.. yes, you need to see Seoul and Korea, I'm sure you'll love it :)

@Envoy: I guess :)

@Carina: I would help a foreigner here, but we don't have a subway :P

@Karen: Well, many Koreans helped me during my short trip, I think it's their hospitality and kindness. But I have no idea, if they're as helpful to Asian Canadians, Asian Americans, I guess they would think you're a local. There are many bad things written about Koreans in general and their attitude towards foreigners, but I must say I have had only positive encounters so far. Hope that stays :)

July 26, 2010 8:14 PM  

Becks said...

I'm sure she didn't mind. She was probably happy to help. Maybe she felt awkward because she couldn't speak English to you.

It does take a bit to figure out how it works.

The first day we got in it took us a bit to figure out how to get out...we were stuck in "no man's" land for a bit.

The Smart card is great though! Once we figured out how to load it again and such, I loved the Subway, it'd take you anywhere.

July 27, 2010 12:46 AM  

MKL said...

@Becks: Haha.. yes, I have the same experience. It's a bit complicated at first, but then it's pretty easy to use :)

July 27, 2010 4:43 PM  

Shingo T said...

Sometimes in life, we over-analyse. Don't worry about the gal, one small hiccup on her end, but at least she still manage to get you through.

The girl will still continue to help people, it is in her blood.

She will just be mindful not to tap the card too fast for other strangers when they aren't prepared, in future.

July 27, 2010 10:46 PM  

Karen said...

@MKL: I hope they continue to be friendly and helpful to you too on your future journeys in Asia.
You're quite right in the sense that they probably wouldn't be as helpful to me as they are to you. And trust me, if I dress and do my hair and makeup the way I do AND curse (in my Canadian accent mind you) aloud from being stuck in a turnstyle, I will not appear to be a local. That in itself still probably won't have anyone come to my aid. From my experience in China Town and from experiences of my Asian friends travelling with a Caucasian/European beside them, they do report being treated differently by Asian people than if they were alone without the Caucasian/European friend. Asians in general tend to be nicer to Caucasian/Europeans - when I go to China Town here I experience the same thing. I get a shitty service when I go with my family but wham, I bring a European friend or my bf and much better service I tell ya. Bias of some strange sort....

July 28, 2010 12:00 AM  

Netster said...

Romantic story is you ask me :)

I want to know the nice girl instead hahahahaha

very special and you would remember it and smile every time you thing about it.

Don't you Nino? why would you want to be feeling bad about it?? or you scared to tell us your feeling hehehehheeh

Okay I'm being funny kekekeke (but, hey, she is cute right??? you left that one out of the story kekekek)

cheers and you have a nice day.

July 28, 2010 9:20 AM  

MKL said...

@Shingo: Thanks for the comfort. :)

@Karen: It's a weird bias, maybe cuz white means rich for some people. And rich means powerful and people have more respect for those in charge. Or maybe it's just: Oh, he's white he has money, be polite. No idea. It's weird, though.

@Netster: Haha.. what are you saying I had something with that girl? Sorry bro, we were on different sides of the turnstiles and we were chicken and duck :P

July 28, 2010 4:44 PM  


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